ليس من شيم الكرام تعجيل الانتقام
It’s not a habit of the noble to hasten revenge.
ثَلاثَةٌ هُنَّ المُرُوءَةُ : جُودٌ مَعَ قِلَّة ، وَ احْتِمالٌ مِنْ غَيْرِ مَذَلَّة ، وَ تَعَفُّفٌ عَنِ المَسْألَةِ
Nobility is three traits: being generous although you have little to give, tolerating without being humiliated, and abstaining from asking for favors.
The closest match to the Arabic word (المُرُوءَةُ) in English is nobility and magnanimity. Although modern dictionaries translate it to chivalry, it is not accurate in my opinion.
The quote summarizes what it takes to be a noble person:
- Generosity while having little to give. It is easy to give if you have a lot, but it is hard if you have little.
- Tolerance which doesn’t compromise self-respect or dignity.
- Staying away from asking others for favors (e.g. begging, borrowing money, etc…). This is mentioned in the Holy Quran in verse 273 Surat Al-Baqarah.
Ali bin Abi Talib has many quotes about this subject, you can refer to them here (Arabic version).